Comments for Freedom from Shame http://drjanebolton.wordpress.com You can't leave your childhood home without it. Fri, 25 Sep 2009 01:23:29 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Viagra Pride by gary graham http://drjanebolton.wordpress.com/2008/02/22/viagra-pride/#comment-191 gary graham Fri, 25 Sep 2009 01:23:29 +0000 http://drjanebolton.wordpress.com/2008/02/22/viagra-pride/#comment-191 I just turned 55 this year and without providing too much information, i needed some enhancements down there. I went online and ordered some Viagra cheapest-generic-cialis.com and I was happy with the results. Gary G. I just turned 55 this year and without providing too much information, i needed some enhancements down there. I went online and ordered some Viagra cheapest-generic-cialis.com and I was happy with the results. Gary G.

]]> Comment on Crying Dos & Don’ts by Maia Berens http://drjanebolton.wordpress.com/2009/06/08/crying-dos-donts/#comment-155 Maia Berens Wed, 10 Jun 2009 14:30:21 +0000 http://drjanebolton.wordpress.com/?p=154#comment-155 I love this. I'm going to write a blog post about the benefits of crying and use your video, if I may. I love this. I’m going to write a blog post about the benefits of crying and use your video, if I may.

]]> Comment on Post A Comment by PETER http://drjanebolton.wordpress.com/post-a-comment/#comment-152 PETER Sun, 07 Jun 2009 19:55:11 +0000 http://drjanebolton.wordpress.com/post-a-comment/#comment-152 Here is article from this weeks local paper. That is me on page 10. /Users/peterdeavila/Desktop/Pages9-16.pdf 2.zip Here is article from this weeks local paper. That is me on page 10.
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]]> Comment on First Flip Video by Gary Graye http://drjanebolton.wordpress.com/2009/05/17/first-flip-video/#comment-131 Gary Graye Mon, 18 May 2009 20:14:47 +0000 http://drjanebolton.wordpress.com/?p=144#comment-131 Hi Jane, As we both know, the hardest thing to do is to take the first step. You certainly did that with a really natural first video. Well done. Hi Jane, As we both know, the hardest thing to do is to take the first step. You certainly did that with a really natural first video. Well done.

]]> Comment on Believe It Or Not: Feeling Sorry for Your Self is a Good Thing by Darlene Ouimet http://drjanebolton.wordpress.com/2009/05/11/believe-it-or-not-feeling-sorry-for-your-self-is-a-good-thing/#comment-128 Darlene Ouimet Sat, 16 May 2009 19:43:00 +0000 http://drjanebolton.wordpress.com/?p=108#comment-128 Wonderful and absoloutly true! Thanks for writing this and tweeting about it. Everyone needs to be reminded (some more then others)! Kudos to you! Darlene Wonderful and absoloutly true! Thanks for writing this and tweeting about it. Everyone needs to be reminded (some more then others)! Kudos to you!
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]]> Comment on One of the Ugliest Words in the English Language by BTC http://drjanebolton.wordpress.com/2009/03/25/one-of-the-ugliest-words-in-the-english-language/#comment-103 BTC Thu, 16 Apr 2009 10:42:23 +0000 http://drjanebolton.wordpress.com/2009/03/25/one-of-the-ugliest-words-in-the-english-language/#comment-103 Superb post! Another use of the evil "should" is by people who use it to excuse themselves from action. For example, a manuipulative parent who can say "I should have been a better parent" but not mean it, is only using it as a way of excusing themselves from having to do better in the here and now. There is a lot of work to be done by therapists trying to undo the work of these internalised models. I love the should-releasing exercises :) BTC Superb post!

Another use of the evil “should” is by people who use it to excuse themselves from action. For example, a manuipulative parent who can say “I should have been a better parent” but not mean it, is only using it as a way of excusing themselves from having to do better in the here and now. There is a lot of work to be done by therapists trying to undo the work of these internalised models.

I love the should-releasing exercises :)

BTC

]]> Comment on One of the Ugliest Words in the English Language by Dawn Pugh http://drjanebolton.wordpress.com/2009/03/25/one-of-the-ugliest-words-in-the-english-language/#comment-95 Dawn Pugh Sat, 28 Mar 2009 10:15:01 +0000 http://drjanebolton.wordpress.com/2009/03/25/one-of-the-ugliest-words-in-the-english-language/#comment-95 Hi Jane, I read your interesting article and wanted to add: I totally agree that by removing damaging and destructive words like should or would and implementing the use of words like choose - choice - prefer and want Can seriously help to eradicate implied criticism. For me the ugliest swear word is C yoU Next Thursday. :-) Many Thanks Best Regards Dawn Pugh http://www.everytherapist.com Hi Jane,
I read your interesting article and wanted to add:
I totally agree that by removing damaging and destructive words like should or would and implementing the use of words like choose – choice – prefer and want
Can seriously help to eradicate implied criticism.

For me the ugliest swear word is C yoU Next Thursday.

:-)
Many Thanks
Best Regards
Dawn Pugh
http://www.everytherapist.com

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